tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-83518786691923185432011-07-20T12:15:43.294-07:00Living and dealing to cancer for Sarvs is now a reality...please support the fundraising efforts of Sarvs family and friends for Herceptin.Sarvs Falefituhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11176788981412046286noreply@blogger.comBlogger791100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8351878669192318543.post-47341561313843992722009-02-16T22:01:00.000-08:002009-02-16T22:36:14.399-08:00

I've been back at work full time for months now and apart from the days where I am unwell, so far so good! Herceptin I was told would not be as evasive as either chemo or radio which would be accurate. I do however after each treatment get car sick and want to throw up.One or two days after treatment, my scalp and face will grow red raised pimple like spots which are very tender to touch.I have

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Firstly thank you ever so much for your continued support and extended love during the most memorable (for want of a better word) time of our lives - even after all the blogging and interviews etc still there are never ever words that describe the gratitude!!! Secondly, fantastic news regarding Herceptin. Herceptin and service will be fully funded for the full 12 months in the public

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Morning of Herceptin....A relaxing and pampered start to my day, breakfast in bed, cards of good wishes signed off with lots of love and heartfelt hugs from my loved ones before they head off to school and work on the morning of my first Herceptin treatment....huh...not even.More like up at sparrows fart to squeeze 8 hours of work into 4 from home after a couple of hours of sleep, in between

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Now the majority of my hospital experiences have been great compared to what I have heard and what I saw my sister put up with during her hospital stay so if there's one thing that I have learned from it all, it is to stand up and have a voice because it is your health and well being that health professionals are responsible for so expect to be treated with respect, tell them exactly what you

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HAS BEEN POSTPONED UNTIL 2009....My apologies to the folks that had pre-purchased tickets ahead of the event and to those that were purchasing at the door on the night.

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I had the privilege of being invited to an exciting launch of the newest Pacific Dance Troupe called M-Brace, Friday 24 October.As it was Breast Cancer Awareness month M-Brace's PR/ Media Director, Jae'D Victor kindly invited my family and I as honoured guests which was very humbling because I had never met him before.You know I really am not a prude but I didn't take my teens along simply

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September 26 I had my thank you speech typed up, my wardrobe set and dancing shoes on ready for a fantastic concert with amazing talents who were going to razzle, dazzle and knock our socks right off!!With general admission set at a very decent $21 and the family pass set reasonably low I was to secure a further 2 treatments taking my treatment totals to 9.We were going to be spoilt for

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It's been 36 days since my last entry and it's not because I managed to raise the full amount for my Herceptin treatment and then lost interest keeping the blog updated. Far from it.It's because since September 26 I became absolutely fed up, frustrated, very disheartened and totally pissed off so expressing all that on my blog during the month of October would have made me look like a right twat

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What's the next hardest thing after a cancer diagnosis, a full mastectomy, chemotherapy, radiotherapy and raising teenagers?Fundraising. If it weren't for that then it could have been raising teenagers but 8 months on since we started most definitely it has to be fundraising. The support I've had with each event has always been overwhelming and always you lose yourself in the atmosphere. An

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Just the other week while waiting in the oncology reception area I saw, if you like, a new graduate class of cancer victims waiting with bandanas, beanies or scarves for their chemo treatments. I flashed anyone who caught my eye a reassuring 'I know I have been there' smile and then pondered the last 11 months.Next month I will have completed and won the first year's battle against breast cancer

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No I.O.U's or excuses peeps just put your money where your mouth is and come and support my Herceptin fundraising event. The last concert we held was fantastic so this one promises to be another fantastic night of fabuloso (as Mariah Carey would say) entertainment.Once again Kelston Boys High School have come to the party and allowed us the use of their premises. The Kelston community have gotten

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I've been preoccupied with other areas of life to be blogging lately however this is no means the end of my trials and tribulations or joys and truimphs - pull out the violin's. But it would be quite timely to mention that cancer does not exclude the trauma stages of teens nor does it make them take the easy road to adolescence out of love for a mother with breast cancer. I had hoped that my

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This hamper will give some lucky person several last minute birthday or xmas pressies or you can crack open a bottle with friends over a few winter dinners!! ALCOHOL HAMPER (valued at over $250.00)Includes1 x Bombay Sapphire (Gin)1 x 42 Below Feijoa (Vodka)1 x Jim Beam1 x Alize (blue)2 x Lindauer2 x Cabernet Sauvignon1 x Sauvignon Blanc1 x Chardonnay1 x Deutz MarlboroughPlus a delectable variety

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OMG we have been slogging it for nearly 8 months now and when updating the 'What's on the board Miss Ford' section, the number of treatments secured doesn't seem to have increased for months which is probably because it hasn't and the total amount is still daunting not to mention an absolute pisser...LOL (well hey what else can you do aye?). It hasn't been without effort because the effort has

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To watch a fairly young caucasian male and an Asian women with Dr as her title, sit in front of the nation including women with families and friends who are struggling to fundraise for Herceptin and lie to our faces that their idiotic and pathetic excuse to yet again decline women with HER2+ breast cancer the full 12 months of Herceptin and then have the audacity to lie and pretend that it has

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More freaking fundraising...sigh...for more treatment...sigh...but on the plus side I could even try to get my fat thighs and ass to the gym eventually to start shredding some of the chemo kilos. Okay who am I kidding, teensy weensy baby steps first. I will continue to take our puppy out for walks in the afternoons firstly to oil the almost ceased up bode and then progress s-l-o-w-l-y back to

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I was nuked for the last time yesturday. There was a feeling of excitement, relief and sadness.Excitement and relief that another phase of my treatment plan had been completed - another chapter closed.And sadness. Every day for 5 1/2 weeks you allow yourself to become involved to some degree with a team of specialists formed not by choice but for my convenience and my welfare.My MV4 Radio team

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Toilet bag packed.Travel bags packed.Gummies cleaned and packed.Checklist checked again and again, just in case.Thunder and heavy rains would not get in the way of this trip. And this time it was not to Acute Oncology at Auckland Hospital!After a very turbulant 45 minute trip from Auckland to New Plymouth I had finally escaped the daily reminder of cancer. Away from the hospital appointments,

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Regularly I feel nauseated, there is tingling and numbness in my right arm (which is not from radiotherapy and more than likely from surgery and chemotherapy), tenderness around my right breast and for crying out loud I have an almost rock hard cement pocket for a breast but it is normal while going through radio and normally subsides and goes back to normal sometime after radio is finished -

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I've had my whole right breast removed. I've had a breast reconstruction done. We started fundraising for 12 months of Herceptin. My reconstruction has been fully completed.I have finished 6 courses of chemotherapy. I have received 9 weeks of free Government funded Hercetpin. I have completed 14 radiotherapy treatments. I am back at work.I have another 11 radiotherapy treatments to complete.

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In a society where just anything we need for schools, sports or clubs has to be fundraised it is very unfortunate people are having to fundraise for their own cancer treatment as well.When I get tired it infuriates me to think about fundraising for a chance of a longer life when one really should be concentrating on treatment and recovery.So we now have another wonderful cancer support network

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Blow me down, I'm so freaking exhausted after 14 radiotherapy treatments already that I feel I have aged another 20 years!!Yesturday my son and I spent the entire day in Acute Oncology for sharp shooting pains up my right arm, where I had surgery and lymph nodes removed, into the right side of my chest, where I have a history of blood clots in my lung.From acute oncology (Level 4) I was wheeled

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Leading up to our Variety Fundraiser Concert I was a frantic nutcase - and I was not even performing! My speech OMG sucked...LOL...but that was because I was still being a nutcase but at least I was being a bit quieter...!!! In hindsight this is was going to be my Oscar award winning screech, oops I mean speech - Thank you to all who gave up the Saturday night footy, the comforts of their homes

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Committee setting up for intermission. Tulili (left) and Kendra (did you pay for the cupcake in your mouth?) Tulili and sister Las Tulili (again...lol) with sister Mary Hubby and I taking time out for the camera's...watever...!! Ex-Kelstonian Kroydon stretching before mopping the floors...BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA... Another Kelstonian, Grayson with our stage manager Saylene...KELSTON WAT!! Margs (

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November 2007A few days after the diseased breast had been removed I called for the night nurse to come and help me out of bed to go to the toilet.I'm in a private hospital where most women I had met had had cosmetic breast surgery and I'm the only one there at that time who had a mastectomy.The night nurse who had just come on duty appeared to be quite short with me, telling me that I needed to

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Along with the many individuals and families that have kindly donated to my cause I would also like to thank the organisations/ businesses who have donated and/ or gifted time/ merchandise -TelstraClear - http://www.telstraclear.co.nz/Mad ButcherFortress FastenersGJ GardinersGodwear T-Shirts http://www.g56creative.com/Kelston Boys High SchoolKelston CommunityThe Cake Maker www

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The recent poll placed on my blog closed and while only 26 voted it was conclusive that Pharmac should pay for a full treatment of Herceptin. I started radiotherapy midweek and just as I expected it hit me immediately. Sore throat, itchy, fatigue and I am fairly sure some of my brain cells are being microwaved on high!!My week has been a right shite of one bringing unwanted challenges and a huge

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One major hurdle others have experienced through my journey has been the uncertaintity of what the correct thing(s) to say to someone diagnosed with cancer would be.Those I speak to eventually after hearing of my diagnosis now know that apart from a new breast, 10+ extra kilos and a bald head, my sense of humour is still intact and I am as crazy as ever if not worse. I'm comfortable talking about

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It is no secret that Pharmac are holding out on funding Herceptin for many women like myself who have early stage HER2+ breast cancer.Pharmac will fund Herceptin for women who have advanced HER2+ breast cancer, so in other words where cancer has progressed too far, is uncurable and only have, in most cases a matter of months to live.It is bittersweet to know that Pharmac will do this at least for

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I've made my online submission. Secretly I know Pharmac will decline to fund Herceptin but if you don't ask you won't get. This will not be the last time I ask either.

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My hair is growing back ('dandelion' hair as described by one of my girls) but it is still falling out, so I will shave one last time so that my hair doesn't grow back in patches and I can't wait to take the tweezers to my eyebrows when they grow back completely although I will miss not having to shave me stumps. And even though I have finished chemo I still need my $1 pocket diary for safe

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I first told my chillens on Sunday 21 October that cancer would never be an excuse to give up nor did cancer deserve pity.My oldest took me to hospital the first time round when I got sick after chemo.He called in sick at work that day advising his supervisor that he was in hospital with me.The next day when he got back to work the ladies asked after me. My son replied that I was still in

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I've had my CT similiation for radiotherapy where they measured me up and gave me my tattoos so that everyday for about a month I get zapped in the exact spot to make sure that any remnants of cancer from the original site that may have been missed with chemo (how could that be possible!?) is done and dusted. As I lay there through the huge donut I took stock of what chemo had put me through over

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***Please note this is NOT one of my fundraisers***THINK PINK - Breast cancer is the leading cause of cancer deaths among women. Over 6 women die of breast cancer each day, that's over 600 mothers, daughters, grandmothers, aunts and cousins each year.Mammograms are free for women over 45 - 69 but how many Pasific women are taking up this opportunity?We plan to walk around One Tree Hill and then

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So one week ago today I was sitting outside oncology an hour and half before my chemo appointment grinning from ear to ear gearing to get my last chemo done and dusted. As predicted I felt rotten without too much delay shortly after.3 days after my last chemo I'm being wheeled back to Ward 64 for a 5 day stay. Deja vu. Ward 64 itself is actually dotted with lovely nurses who you welcome to your

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With much pride I will announce at reception tomorrow "Hi I'm Sarvs Falefitu and I have chemo today" and I will wait happily for as long as it takes.When my oncology nurse calls me from the waiting room at Daystay Oncology I will float to my designated bed or lazy boy.When I am asked to soak my arm in hot hot water I will grit, bear and soak longer than normal grinning from ear to ear.If my

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I got the fact that I had (positive talk) cancer. Understood the need for chemo. Experienced the side effects both physically and mentally, trying to be all things to all people and realised yet again 'Sarvs you are NOT superwoman, bring it down girlfriend'.The week after my 5th FEC regime I was hospitalised again. It's a sad day when the nursing staff recognise you up at Ward 64 - my 3rd home

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Carey and Lara Carey and hubby And now mum gets in on the action And the Boss (I am sure Carey was nice as pie at work that week) Shelley the hairdresser tidies Carey up... ...'no nigga lines please'... smiling and laughing the entire night..You look fantastic Carey And you too can sport the new look...GI Jane and Sinead A huge THANK YOU to Carey for getting behind me and putting her money where

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Friday 18th April at 14 Glenhaven Place, Te Atatu Peninsula at 7pm sharp a very old friend of mine that cancer managed to bring back into my life (see it does have it's positives) is inviting friends and family into her home to cut, hack and maybe even shave (should I have even suggested that..?!) off her crowning glory to raise more funds for my Herceptin treatment!!Okay so if you are reading

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Your darling parents I will love to no end and no words could do justice or begin to describe my gratitude. One day you will know that many loving people put much thought into giftng you a beautiful name and gifting me with an extension to life. You will be surrounded by those loving and generous people who I am so grateful to.I hope one day you will realise you were a key player in making a

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And reflecting back just a wee bit, life has been bloomin' stark mad.One GP visit, one mammogram, one ultrasound, one core biopsy, one mastectomy, one breast reconstruction, fourteen breast clinic consultations, one chemotherapy orientation, one chemo oncologist consultation, one radio oncologist consultation, one istotope injection, one bone scintigram, one head, chest and lung x-ray, four

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After my first FEC regime I was a tired washed up wreck unable to find a place of solace - my bedroom felt like a mortuary. It was a common sight to find me sprawled out on our bed fighting the exhausting fatigue and never ending nausea with limited or no energy. And shucks I was a pyscho on steriods...fortunately my adorable family know after chemo I am a different person and am left to get

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Sone & I have known Sarvs for many years and we are blessed to be able to help her. We are awaiting the arrival of a precious baby girl and are selling bids for her name to fundraise for Sarvs' treatment. We would love for you to help us find a beautiful Samoan or English name her. You can place a bid for a name that is special to you or you think we may like. A $50.00 bid per name would be

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A couple of months ago my darling friend and I were privileged to have attended a wonderful workshop, Look Good Feel Better which was held at the Cancer Society in Auckland. Imagine a room full of complete strangers with cancer sporting either scarves, bandanas, turbans or naked (beautiful and bald) meeting for the very first and perhaps the last time being pampered for free by generous

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My cousin's wife Lizzie who is heavily pregnant was my companion for chemo cocktail number 4. It was a mini girls day out catching up in between flicking through gossip mags, munching on lollies and nuts, drinking coffee, laughing, texting, looking at photos and swapping hilarious hen's night stories - the normal things gals do when they get together except we're at the Cancer and Blood Services,

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Host: Michele A'Court voted Female Comedian 2007 Gorgeous in pink the organiser, Irene PinkTop: Looking like a character out of Matrix, the sexy and funny Rebecca McFagden Below: And the star of the show who rocked the entire club with laughter, Justine Smith Sunday, 9th March at 8pm down at the Classic Comedy Club, 321 Queen Street me, my sister and a very close friend of mine were treated to a

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On my way to the hospital for blood tests this afternoon I was sitting at the lights waiting for a group of four males who were crossing. I knew that one was 'gawking' and didn't think anymore of it. But when he obviously alerted the other three to 'gawk' at the 'bald woman' they all walked past staring and then continued to stare to the point of absolute freaking rudeness. I got my back up and

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My small but 'huge at heart' fundraising committee.Margs, Mary, Flo, Las and meAbsent (with good reason): EpeOur registration tent was kept busy all day. Kendra, Stefan, Margs, Andraea and Seka.Left: My mum, spiritually, mentally and physically tough. Me and Debbie from Kawerau having a 'korero' while we 'savali'Karen (with umbrella), daughter Alysha, Kaitlin (from Ohope) with her cousin and my

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In my heart of hearts I knew that Christian, Maria and Ingrid would 'walk the distance' YOU ROCK!! (even if you did bring the rain...LOL) The other DoL supporters that 'complied' on the day, Angela and KimberleyRelentless from the get go, an old friend Moyra (in pink) Another mother and daughter team, Aumau and ChanelleScrumptious niece Tamah and Aunty Sarvs My son Kroydon running it for his mum,

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Very simply put and in everyday language.Grading breast cancer: Pathologists grade the cancer according to how the cancer cells look and behave. Grades are numbered from 1 to 3. Pathologists will look at the size and extent of the tumour which are numbered 1 to 4. Also the number of lymph nodes affected by cancer are noted and the spreading of the cancer from the breast to other parts of the body

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True to form Auckland's crappy weather turned it on as the first 16 dedicated supporters arrived to 'walk the distance' for me at sparrow's fart, which in my books is 6am, and in pitch black too. Within a couple of hours more dedicated souls rocked up in wet weather gear to take the track - people just kept turning up throughout the course of the day. Family, friends, friends of friends, their

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I would normally shy away from the public eye but when one needs to raise big money to fund their own anti cancer drug you do what you need to do without a second thought.The opportunity to be interviewed on air (radio), an interview with my local rag (Western Leader) and a story on Maori Television (to be aired at a later date) I am now thinking of hitting up Mark or John for more exposure. ..!!

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What is chemo brain? Very similiar to mummy brain I would say except that I think chemo does kill off more than 3/4 of ones brain cells..!After only two chemo cocktails, chemo brain is in full force around at my brain. How do I know? Well let's see...1. when you forget you have appointments (all 3 on the same day or was it I forgot what day it was?),2. you continuously misplace your phone (with

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A friend of ours will be exhibiting his art at the Waitakere Open Studio Weekend on Sunday 2 March 2008 from 10am - 4pm which is being run by the Waitakere Central Community Arts Council (WCC-AC). It will be held up at "The Studio" at CEAC, 426 Great North Road, Henderson.What has this go to do with my cancer blog, you ask? Ever-ree-thaang of course!!Our friend will be commissioning a couple of

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Daily I am constantly reminded of cancer and most days majority of the time I will find something to celebrate. Today I celebrated the fact that people I don't even know and have never met made a life changing impact in my life. Fa'afetai tele lava to the 'tu meke' peeps from NZ Post, CourierPost (ECL), ACP, International, NZPost Business Direct/ Sales for your act of kindness. The funds you

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Immediately after my diagnosis I was surrounded by breast surgeons, breast care nurses, specialists, oncologists etc etc etc. I have been in great company with people who are familiar with cancer. It is part of their lives. It's how they make a living.I have always referred to it as 'the safe zone'. I was in the same zone leading up to my first chemo cocktail surrounded by professionals who care

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I was privileged to be invited to speak for 5-7 minutes on Radio 531Pi which was hosted by Jeff Ka on the morning of my second chemo cocktail. I was slotted in at approximately 8:45am Tuesday 5 February.I am not sure if I answered the actual questions asked of me.I am sure I kept repeating myself.I did sound like I had frogs lodged in my throat a few times.And true to form I abolished the

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Mammograms are completed by an x-ray of the breast to detect cancers that are tiny and before they can be felt.Screening mammograms are performed to ‘screen’ for signs of change of the breasts or cancer. Where there is concern of a lump a screening diagnostic mammogram is used to help make a diagnosis.The larger the breast lump the greater the risk that the cancer could have spread beyond the

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I've always loved accessories and now I get to go the whole hog i.e., shoes, handbags and headwear.While in hospital I pulled out a huge chunk of my hair and while I have known for sometime that my crowning glory would eventually disappear from my crown, the sight of it between my fingers in my hands still reduced me to tears of sadness. We are advised to cut our hair as short as possible before

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Wednesday 23 January, day 9 after chemo just when I thought I couldn't feel any worse, I note that my temperature was rising, the throat wasn't just 'sore' anymore rather notably painful and there didn't seem to be an off button on my ole bodes plumbing system - just to put it politely.Not wishing to alarm my family too much I ask Kroydon to drive me to Acute Oncology Unit, Auckland Hospital for

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(NB: if you are the squirmy type then skip this part altogether and have a groovy Monday)Racked with constant pain throughout entire body. Check.Little or no energy. Check.Short bouts of nausea. Check.Diahorrea. CheckHeadaches and dizzy spells. Check-check.Development of body rash. Check.Tastebuds completely shot. Check (tough going for an islander...).Sore mouth, face and scalp.

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The Cancer Society provide so many services which are mostly free to those who have been diagnosed with cancer.Look Good, Feel Better; sleep management classes and aromatherapy massages ($10 for an hour) just to name but a few. While I have not attended any of these yet, my friend and I are booked to attend these and many more over the next couple of months.There are also counselling services

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It's sweltering outside but there's a chill in the air in one particular vehicle from the passengers side as it speeds down the motorway to make a 10:15am 'chemotherapy' appointment. The clock reads 10:06am. At 10:11am the vehicle is parked up and the morning then becomes history as a relieved but rather frazzled virgin chemo cancer patient enters the Cancer and Blood Centre, Auckland Hospital.

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No one and nothing can ever prepare you for when you have to tell your children. My husband pleaded with me after my diagnosis to tell our children sooner rather than later. When I finally I brought myself to have one of the cruellest conversations a parent ever has to have with their children everything I rehearsed went out the window.Sunday, 21 October 07.When the father of your children is

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My workplace holds some of the most amazing people I have known. The path I am heading down will no doubt be tough and the unspoken support and love from those I work with has not gone unnoticed. Thank you, you know who you are....!!!!Today is another day off work for appointments, the main one being the radiotherapy meeting. In brief I need radiotherapy after chemo as while the cancer has been

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What was I thinking!!! I am the 'administrator' of this Blog now, and boy... my sistra Sarvs has done such a good job on it.. I have NO idea how I can add value.. other than.. just typing.. so .. here I go...Okay, well i'll cut to the chase. The race is on!!!If you are reading this, it means you have been blessed with the 'link' .. Yes, the one that led you to Sarv's page and the story of the '

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Hubby and I attended chemo orientation today which was extremely informative.Cancer outpatients are each given cancer packs which include some of the following -- information sheets on chemo drugs- cancer support contact details- information sheet on side effects- wig form- Look Good, Feel Better info and formI cast a curious glance around the room and note cancer has ensnared lives from all

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While waiting at St Marks Breast Clinic for the results of my tests that morning on October 18, 2007 my memory was instantly cast back a month earlier when my oldest daughter Denae came home raving about an 'old school' song she had heard, that I would know but didn't know what it was called. Finally she found the title of the song and played it to me. I had not heard Ribbon in the Sky by Stevie

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Next up blood tests are completed to ensure mainly that I am not a silent Hepatitis B carrier otherwise it will literally be the death of me at the start of chemo.Following this an appointment with the radiologist to discuss radiotherapy further.Week after more scans - chest, abdominal and a bone scintigram hoping that there is no trace of cancer there.More clinic visits to see my breast care

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'Resolution noun, determination, firmness, perseverance, purpose, steadfastness, tenacity, willpower...'For as long as I can remember I made new resolutions every New Year's Eve to break them a few days after New Year's Day. Now looking it up in the dictionary I am completely blown away with its meaning.I am determined to win my battle with cancer. I am firm on that and everything else will fall

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Ingredients:3 doses Taxotere3 doses Herceptin3 doses Fluorouracil3 doses Epirubicin3 doses CyclophosphamideHow to apply: 1. Take 1 dose each of Taxotere and Herceptin. Administer every three weeks, three times ONLY.2. Take 1 dose each of Fluorouracil, Epirubicin and Cyclophosphamide. Administer every three weeks, three times ONLY.To begin mid-late Jan 08.Once chemo cocktail has ended begin round

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My dear friend Margaret challenged me to put myself out there and encouraged me to start this blog as there was to be some 'serious money' to be fundraised.As I am technically challenged and will eventually be drained from my treatments Margaret has put herself out there for me and offered to manage my blog page. An offer that I have accepted. Thanks Margz!!A kick up the backside to start a blog,

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Herceptin contains the ingredient trastuzumab and is an anti-cancer agent.Herceptin belongs to a class called monoclonal anitbodies.Herceptin is used to treat a certain type of metastatic (spreading) breast cancer.Some people with this type of breast cancer have a large amount of protein called HER2 on the cancer cells. Herceptin attaches itself to these HER2 proteins (or receptors) on the cancer

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Oncology appointment. Before meeting with the oncologist I was given homework to complete and to send back to his office.The very last question was around the level of disclosure. I was to state the level of information I would appreciate eg., full, frank and open discussion or would there be issues I would not be ready to discuss yet?Me being me stated I wanted full, frank and open - you know

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August 2007 I had coffee with an 'acquaintance' that I had met through netball earlier in the year. I had no idea it would flourish into the most important friendship and completely change my life.Our daughters were selected for the same representative team; we loved the sport; we were regular sideline supporters and while away 'on tour' so to speak, I was texting updates of the tournament back

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It's been 59 days since I found the lump in my breast, 54 days since I was diagnosed with breast cancer and 19 days since my masectomy.I have almost a step by step guide of what happens when one is diagnosed and along the way I have educated, if you like, my family and friends around me too about the in's and out's of having breast cancer.Tragedy has reunited me with an old school friend and

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November 22, 2007Before walking through the 'doors of no return' I was surroundered by my supportive family and friend *Terry and her daughter who wished to be there to support me through my surgery at Auckland Surgical Centre.Filling out forms, being questioned by two nurses, aneathesitist and both my surgeons was routine before my masectomy. Sitting in my sexy gown, matching cap and white

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October 18, 2007 9:00amI'm looking at my doctor for a sign that my fears were unwarranted. Of course when he starts drafting a referral letter to St Marks Breast Clinic my hopes start to waiver11:00amI'm wrapped in a St Marks forest green gown in the waiting room pretending to be interested in the Herald...11:15amOne mammogram later (I can see why women don't like them much but hey...) I am then

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